Scientific Divinity

I am sure you have heard the term before, “tantric sex” but probably have no idea what it is. It is not the same as conventional sex, and it is not just a different position to try. It is infact, an entirely different kind of sex, with a different end goal. The objective is not to simply “get off” and go about your day, and it is not simply about satisfying your partner. It is much deeper than that. Tantric sex is much more intimate than conventional sex, because there is no rush. It’s not a race to the finish and orgasm is not its end goal. It is about connecting with your partner on all levels, physical, emotional, sexual, and spiritual.

During tantric sex, the male usually focuses solely on the females pleasure for the first while. It usually starts off with a nice relaxing massage. The use of oils and candle light, is better for creating a much more relaxed atmosphere. The reason the male focuses on the females pleasure, is because it takes longer for the female to get aroused, and it should be done so, slowly, and fully. Where as males are ready to go right away, he must learn to keep his energy in check. The massage is very interesting because it corresponds with the chakras, and the organs, helping the vital life force energy flow through the whole body, getting her into a very aroused state. She learns to trust her partner completely before allowing any kind of intercourse, and often returns the massage, and controlling when it occurs.

It is important that both the male and female both understand how to manage their energy. There are methods that both males and females can practice cultivating their sexual energy, these methods should be learned on their own, before engaging in sex with their partner, because although the benefits would be good for the one that is doing this, they are far outweighed by the benefits gained if both partners work together.

Once the foreplay is out of the way, and intercourse occurs, it is different than conventional sex, because both partners have synchronized breathing, to allow for the energy to flow smoothly between the two of them. The male should not ejaculate, instead, he should be moving the energy up his spine, pulling in the female energy with it. While his energy is transferred to her through the mouth. It is called the microcosmic orbit. This is why french kissing is so important, it’s much more intimate than we are led to believe. The lips are the most sensitive part on our bodies, more so than the genital areas, and the act of kissing, is one of the most important aspects of sex. The kiss is so important, that it can tell you the status of your relationship no matter how long you’ve been together. If you don’t enjoy kissing your partner, there is most likely a problem.

During this transfer of energy, both partners, once experienced enough, are able to have orgasms without ejaculation. They can make the transfer of energy stronger, which leads to a orgasmic feeling circulating their whole bodies. This can send waves of pleasure through both of them, and it is much more pleasurable than regular genital orgasms, and you don’t have to stop at just one. You can have multiple orgasms that last much longer. Each peak phase gets stronger and stronger, once you have done this successfully, you won’t want to go back to conventional sex. I find it funny now, how men will go such lengths and do stupid things, for 4 seconds of pleasure.

Tantric sex is about a much deeper exploration of yours and your partners body, feelings, and emotions. It is a much more intimate, relaxing and fulfilling relationship, where sexual desires are transformed into love, which is what we call, soul mating. It’s like sharing a meditative state with your partner. I will be writing about that, in part 2. Previously, I wrote a post about sexual energy, and how important it is for men. You can read it here,

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