Tantric Sex Part 2: Soul Mating
It doesn’t matter what gender you are, at some point in all of our lives, we all wish we could find our soul mate, even if we don’t admit it. However, in our current society, we have long forgotten what a soul mate actually is. It goes far beyond having things in common and mutual attraction. It goes beyond being best friends and good lovers. Most of us think that there is only one soul mate out there for each of us, and good luck finding that one person in a world of 7 billion. Well this is not the case, because, that is not what soul mate means. Your current spouse could very well be your soul mate, and so could your ex. It is a choice, not a chance. Because soul mate means exactly that, to mate souls. Tantric sex teaches us how to do this. To make your partner your soul mate, is a decision both of you must agree on.
In my previous post I talked about moving energies throughout you and your partners bodies, and how this can lead to multiple orgasms. Well soul mating takes it one step further, this is the closest most intimate thing you can do with another human being. As both of your energies circulate through each others bodies, they go through each of the higher energy centers in the body. Once your partners energy reaches your head, and yours reach theirs, you will both experience a loss of physical barriers. You won’t know where one ends and the other beings. You will feel at one with your partner in a very blissful state. Your souls are intertwined, so two parts of a whole become one. This is true love, and it is beautiful. You and your partner become satisfied on every level of your being, and the connection between you becomes much stronger, making your relationship much happier and full of love, passion, and intimacy. It is like sharing a meditative state where you find inner peace within yourself, but this is increased in potency, because there are two minds being enlightened working in union.
There does not need to be friction during intercourse to mate souls. Instead, penetration happens and both partners just simply relax, and enjoy the feeling of being connected with each other, this loving embrace allows the energy to flow freely between them, strengthening the more they feel with awareness. It is more of an internal process, using the inner energies, than it is physical. You give as much as you recieve. When the power of two minds connect and become one, this is love in its most beautiful moment, and it is something that both partners would consider sacred.
Unfortunately in the modern world, finding someone that can see past conventional sex, is harder than finding a needle in a haystack. Because we are bombarded with sexual advertisments, tv shows, movies, magazines and peer pressure, we often don’t even get to explore our sexuality, it is shoved on us, and we take what we can get. It has become a competition to get the hottest body, and to “get off” as soon and as often as possible. We have forgotten the true meaning behind sex, and have turned it into a meaningless one night stand. As a result, the population of the world has been climbing by the billions. In the 1800’s there was 1 billion people on the planet, we didn’t reach 2 billion, until 1927. 3 billion in 1960, 4 billion in 1974, 5 billion in 1987, 6 billion in 1999, and as you know, 7 billion in 2011. As you can see it is getting faster and faster. What is the point? We can barely handle what we already have, is adding more people the solution? Birth control during tantric sex is just as effective as if you were using a condom. This is why tantric sex should be taught, people are simply uneducated about it, and its even more satisfying than regular sex. Who wouldn’t want to learn about it? As long as the sex for profit industry has control, humanity cannot evolve. Sex would not be able to sell, if men didn’t feel the need to get off. Unfortunately people often judge things before they try it, and that is ashame, because they have no idea what they’re missing.
For those of you interested in learning the ways of tantric sex, there are several resources out there. Mantak Chia has written several books about it, called the mutli-orgasmic man, the multi-orgasmic woman, and the multi-orgasmic couple. These books can be bought through your book stores or on amazon, and they are well worth the read. They teach you how to practice solo, so if you don’t have a partner, you can still learn the ways, and its a very healthy thing for you to do. They also teach you what to do with your partner. Coming from a guy that randomly decided to try it, I can say that it changed my life for the better. I’m not trying to advertise, I’m simply telling you it works and is worth it. In part 3, I will be talking about the benefits of tantric sex, outside the bedroom.
Here is the link to part 1,
http://scientificdivinity.tumblr.com/post/15684312694/tantric-sex-part-1-what-its-about